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Although this is not a strict rule, I would personally prefer you to choose another shade since most ladies over 40 look much better in additional colorful outfits.

You do not have to buy a mother-of-the-bride dress if the thought of it sitting untouched in your closet after the massive day is unappealing.

Add a metallic heeled sandal or pump and you're good to go.